So if you say the wrong thing to hit the most sensitive of nerves when surrounded by the correct people, be prepared to watch a near immediate change in body language… accompanied by pouting or severe acting out.

Even as we’ve moved away from the John Wayne/caveman mentality and allowed that men do have known things known as “feelings,” there are some things that seem hard-wired into almost all men (American men, anyway).

Although some stay-at-home dads have come to terms with this, there’s still largely the belief that men should be the providers. And I know all too well the feeling that I’m failing in my duties because we can’t move into a house and have to stay in our condo.

At least you’re aware of it, though — good luck with staying on the right side of this issue!