Last week, The Wife and I went to contract on our new home (I will post pictures later this week), and there is one topic that The Wife and I went back and forth on and we still don’t agree with each other. When we first started looking for homes we ran into a very nice seller’s agent who we then employed as our buyer’s broker.
What I Like about Using a Buyer’s Broker
Not every couple is the same, but I will tell you the best thing about using a Real Estate Buyer’s Broker was the fact that it was nice to have someone work with The Wife before I was even shown the house.There were times where they looked at 3 or 4 houses while I was at work. It also provided The Wife another sounding board (although I believed that sounding board was more of a “yes-man” but at least it is another person’s input and that person has extensive experience).
I also liked the fact that the broker was “free to me.” The broker was taking a piece of the seller’s broker’s fee. While I understand that in certain cases the seller’s broker may lower her commission to complete a deal, I had no out of pocket expense in using our Buyer’s Broker.
Our particular buyer’s broker was very nice and knowledgeable about the first area we were looking at (not our second).
What I Hate About Using a Buyer’s Broker
It is probably an ego thing but I felt like I was a better negotiator than our broker, yet, I wasn’t involved in the negotiation process. Which brings me problem, there are now two brokers on the phone who only get paid of the deal closes. How much of the confidential information that my broker knew was laid out on the table under the guise of getting a deal done at my bank account’s expense?
A smaller issue I have (which is offset by the issue that using her was “free”) is that The Wife did 98% of the work! The Wife is diligent, smart, and organized. The Wife had houses mapped out through MLSLI and Trulia way better than she ever could have.
I also had a few other complaints, but they might be broker specific
- We had a few issues with the engineer’s report, said she didn’t want to be involved in the negotiations of that so I handed it off to Counsel and the next thing I knew she was involved.
- The broker’s contract was littered with language that most people would ignore and I had to have them edit it pretty substantially as my position was clear – we will use you if you don’t cost me a dime out of pocket. The language had to do with finding a home that wasn’t listed via MLS and thus didn’t have to prescribe to the splitting rule.
- This might have to to do with the broker being female but I sometimes felt like it was two against one in terms of business decision versus pure “buying a home” emotion.
Have you ever used a buyer’s broker?